是我,greenflower
买书
greenflower 发表于 2011-11-03 22:26:28
Keep Simple
greenflower 发表于 2011-10-26 22:14:15

For every Computer professional in the world, the first language they come across is C. With so much of wonderfulness and which also makes the learning experience so fun and entertaining.
I'm Yours
greenflower 发表于 2011-10-07 20:00:28
想要寻处桃花源,远离烦扰......
Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but you're so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks now I'm trying to get back
Before the cool done run out I'll be giving it my bestest
nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some
But I won't hesitate no more no more
It cannot wait I'm yours
Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
Listen to the music of the moment people, dance and sing
We're just one big family(A la peaceful melody)
And it's our God-forsaken right to be loved loved loved loved loved
So I won't hesitate no more no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate our time is short
This is our fate I'm yours
Dd-do do you, but do you, dd-do
But do you want to come on
Scooch on over closer dear
And I will nibble your ear
I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
And so I drew a new face and I laughed
I guess what I be saying is there ain't no better reason
To rid yourself of vanities and just go with the seasons
It's what we aim to do our name is our virtue
But I won't hesitate no more no more
It cannot wait I'm yours
Open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find that the sky is yours
So please don't, please don't, please don't
There's no need to complicate
Cause our time is short
This is, this is, this is our fate
I'm yours
Rose of Time
greenflower 发表于 2011-10-01 19:59:34
常常会想什么样的生活才是自己最喜欢的?心灵的自由应该如何去明确的表述?身体健康,亲友相伴,和乐从容,一个个看似平常的词语,领悟其中必有感同身受吧。如今翻闲书,常常会在douban上从众的选择一些,不得不说,萝卜白菜各有所爱,别人爱不释手的,自己倒是不一定就能读得下去。心情和心态总是在不断的调整中,好在是positive的方面多些。想要休息的时候能有引人入胜的好书翻翻,也算是乐事了。只是最近犯懒,只想看些不用动脑筋的东西,就连《开明国语课本》,想着重拾下童年时候学语文时候的感受,都看不下去。小侄子到是巴巴的盼着我给他好好讲讲呢,嘿嘿,且等着吧。
豆瓣的9点是我很喜欢的地方,生活可以丰富多彩,方方面面都有新鲜。下面的一些话是引自一位豆瓣名博的博文,最近懒了那就直接拿来贴贴吧,其中的观点我是赞同的很。
管仲有段名言:
“吾始困时,尝与鲍叔贾,分财利多自与,鲍叔不以我为贪,知我贫也。吾尝为鲍叔谋事,而更穷困,鲍叔不以我为愚,知时有利不利也。吾尝三仕三见逐於君,鲍叔不以我为不肖,知我不遭时也。吾尝三战三走,鲍叔不以我为怯,知我有老母也。公子纠败,召忽死之,吾幽囚受辱,鲍叔不以我为无耻,知我不羞小节而耻功名不显于天下也。生我者父母,知我者鲍子也。”
简单说:管仲以前做啥丢人事,鲍叔牙都不责备他,因为知道他做此选择,必有苦衷,必有舍不下的。
我一直尊敬对自己理想的生活方式(无论多么奇怪)持之以恒的人——实际上我自己有许多幼稚呆傻的理想一直在践行着——但用句菲茨杰拉德的话,“当你想批评人时,记住,并不是世上所有人都和你有一样的条件”,我觉得,过着违背自己心愿生活的人(为数不少吧?),说到底只是价值观不同。一个人肯放弃理想,并承担内心的失落感,一定是因为命运给他安排了更割舍不得的东西(比如,我那位被迫结婚的朋友,那对不那么好沟通的双亲)。也只有你自己知道,你自己的人生,自己的价值观里,那对你究竟有多重要。
这个世界并不公平,许多时候造化弄人还很混蛋。甘苦取舍,放不下的东西为何重要,有多难放掉,只有自己知道。弗罗斯特的诗说,“抱歉我没法同时选两条路”。无论你选择过什么或将要选择什么,无论别人或你自己偶尔也哀怨说你没选的那条路看上去如何动人当初应该如何如何或者将来应该如何如何,都没什么值得愧悔的。选择一种生活,就是选择了不去冒另一种生活的风险。无论他人或你自己如何说,你至少选择保留了一些你不肯割舍的某样东西。不管是父母、亲人、理想还是安全感,抑或是许多他人完全无法理解的事物。也只有你自己知道,你自己的人生,自己的价值观里,那对你究竟有多重要。
